INTIMACY + RELATIONSHIP
Welcome,
I'm Jules...
Intimacy & Relationship Therapist helping women and couples stuck in cycles of low sex, resentment, or disconnection, rebuild connection, reignite desire, and feel in love again.
I’m a trauma-informed counsellor, mother of four, and co-founder of the Nourishing the Mother podcast.
I work with women and couples who feel stuck in patterns of low intimacy, miscommunication, or emotional distance—even when love is still there.
Together, we uncover what’s in the way—resentment, exhaustion, trauma, unmet needs—and build the skills, safety, and connection that bring intimacy, desire, and emotional closeness back online.
This work isn’t about fixing you. It’s about helping you feel again—safe in your body, seen in your relationship, empowered in your love, and genuinely appreciated for all that you hold and do.
WHO I HELP
COUPLES
WOMEN
Feel like lovers turned roommates?
If good sex feels like a distant memory, every conversation turns into miscommunication, or resentment has started to build—you're not alone.
But you don’t have to stay stuck here.
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I help couples move out of survival mode and back into connection—with intimacy, desire, playfulness, and presence as the foundation.
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Because love isn’t the issue. The issue is how you've been trying to hold it all together without the tools to stay close, erotic, and emotionally fed.
You’re carrying it all—and you’re exhausted.
You’re needed all day, responsible for everything, and craving space to just feel like you again. The softness, the spark, the part of you that wants to be touched, desired, and seen—it feels distant.
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I work with women who feel shut down, stretched thin, and disconnected from their sensuality.
Women who love their partners but feel like they’ve lost themselves.
Women who want to stop resenting, start receiving, and feel safe enough to want again.
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This isn’t about doing more.
It’s about coming back to your body, your boundaries, and your desire—without shame.
WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING
"I have an understanding now of femme and masc energy and an awareness of when I’m in each and how it feels. My husband and I have begun being intimate again after a year of only very sporadic (and forced) encounters. I am appreciating his masc and what he provides for our family. He is responding with more caring behaviour like making me coffee, buying me wine. I have so much hope for our marriage now. I also have so much hope that the man I married will have room to become the man he was always meant to be, without the build up of tension, low self esteem etc. I dance almost every day. I breath deep and use my sound every day. And so much more!!!"
Sophie
"I had one foot out of our marriage, looking for reasons to leave. Now I have both feet in and I’m looking for the beauty every day."
Sally
"Working with Julie has changed our marriage, how I parent and how I understand myself. It's an ongoing journey but Julie's support and wisdom is life changing in ways that we didn't even know were possible."
Hayley
"Julie is so good!! I can't put into words the learnings and shifts I have felt in me and my partner. I know that "everything" is a strong word but it feels like it has changed everything for me. Not just in my romantic life but with friends, family also. I feel more at ease, more joy and more trust in my life. I no longer feel so anxious, controlling or needing to fix shit. Its magic and its such joy to learn about. its a real "coming home". I loved it all and just want more...life feels and is better, I can't wait to continue on this path..."
F.M.
🥀 Tired of holding it all together while feeling further apart?
Start with the Resentment Decoder—a free guide + audio support to help you name what’s really going on, reclaim your energy, and start building the kind of connection that includes you.​
💌 You’ll also receive my weekly emails—real, nourishing support to help you soften the resentment, speak your truth, and stay open in long-term love.